HOW TO MEDITATE
    one simple way to start off  

    Time and Place
       Arrange a convenient time and place.  Sit in a comfortable
       but alert manner.  Settle down.  Close the eyes.

    Use an Effortless Focus
      Begin the soft mental repetition of a simple word.
      Alternatively, put your attention on your breathing.

    Letting Go & Coming Back
      When you lose your “effortless focus”, just let it go.
      When you notice it’s gone, gently return.  Simple!

    Not Trying
      Don’t try to control or force it.  Simply take it as it comes.

    Ending Meditation
      Remain with your eyes closed for 2 or 3 minutes.
      Ease out of meditation.  Gradually enter back into activity.

    Daily Practice
      15 to 20 minutes twice a day is good.


    Now, here's more detail on these points:

    On TIME AND PLACE

    Having exactly the same time and place to sit is not essential. But you will see how your special place
    develops a attractive aura of tranquility.  (I can’t keep my son and cat out of my special chair I have under a
    tree.)

    Some preparations may be needed-- washing up, silencing the telephone, dimming the lights, asking others
    not to interrupt you.  Any fancy setup-- incense, special music, special clothes, total silence,etc.-- is okay,
    but one's practice could become dependent on it.

    You don’t have to sit cross-legged.  You don’t have to even sit straight, tho it’s a good idea to start off—after
    that, let your body move if it wants to, or re-adjust your posture if you feel to.

    For your safety you should not sit too high in a chair you could fall off, and may want a wall behind you if
    your head tends to fall back.  The support of a cushion can prevent lower back strain or be used to raise
    yourself up to prevent knee strain.


    On EFFORTLESS FOCUS

    “Intone a sound, such as AUM, slowly. As sound enters soundlessness, so do you!” Vigyana
    Bhairava Tantra

    1. Select a word or short phrase to use.  Or take initiation into a mantra through a meditation master or their
    representative.  The word should have a harmonious sound or vibration in the nervous system.  It may or
    may not have a special meaning for you.  Some examples of meditation words used are:



    Traditional mantras:, raam, shriim, hari-om
    Religious Words: alelu-ya, maranatha
    English words: one, I am, calm


    Your word is key or catalyst to the meditative process.  It is said to be best to stick, with one word or
    not to change it frequently. It is suggested to keep it private.

    "The word is not selected for its meaning, rather for the intention it represents.  The word
    is considered sacred because it is a symbol of our intention to open to the mystery of the
    presence of a divine reality."   Father Thomas Keating


    2. Silent mental repetition of the word should be serene and effortless.  Don’t rush it, or force the
    rhythm, or try to think it clearly and distinctly.  Let it be just a faint idea.  Give it a gentle start and then let it
    continue on as it will.

    "Introduce the sacred word softly, incredibly softly, like a feather alighting on a piece of
    cotton fiber."   Thomas Keating

    NOTE: The other way I mentioned is to use breath-awareness.    It can be nicely led into by slow deep
    breathing.

    There are other methods of “effortless focus”.  In some traditions they rest the awareness in the area of the
    heart or third eye.  Meditative music can be softly played.  Visualization is used.  All these methods can be
    used in the same simple way.


    On LETTING GO and RETURNING

    1. During the sitting, the meditation word may change.  It may become slower or faster, clearer or fainter.  It
    may change its sound into something different.  It may seem distant.  It may fade away or get lost
    completely.  Sometimes it may synchronize with the breathing or be present along with other thoughts.  
    Don't resist any such changes.  Just take it as it comes.

    2. Then, if a moment comes when it is noticed that our effortless focus is gone, we just very gently return
    to it.  And then again, let it go on as it will.

    This "letting go and coming back” allows for a gradual refining and deepening of the awareness.  This
    creates the meditation state-- in mind, brain and body.  And this in turn brings all the benefits.  So… let's
    keep it simple and let the process do itself.

    “Have the attitude of feeling like a little child, with his helplessness and simplicity and purity.  You
    will be less concerned with technique and self-effort and will feel that all will be given to you.”   
    Shri Chinmoy


    On THOUGHTS ARE OKAY

    Consider thoughts as part of meditation.  Allow them to come and go as they will. If you try to stop
    thinking you will just create strain!  So we don't resist thoughts, nor do we try to hlod onto them, nor do we
    give importance to what they are about (during meditation).
    Nor should we use our mantra, or any other centering method, to try to block out thoughts.  


    On NOT TRYING

    In natural-style meditation  we are not trying to do anything nor to get somewhere-- like if we were driving a
    car.  It’s a natural, spontaneous process, similar to falling asleep or waking up.  Here are some hints:

    Don’t resist thoughts, feelings or bodily sensations.  Don’t resist disturbing noises.  Don’t look for any special
    experiences.  Don’t worry if you’re doing it right or not.  Don’t try to analyze or judge the process.  Don’t try
    to make your mind a blank.  Don’t try to do anything.  Even if you’re doing these "don't does", don’t mind!  
    Simply take it as it comes.

    "If your mind is not holding anything, it is clear like space.  Clear like space means that
    sometimes clouds come, sometimes rain or lightning .... but the air is never broken.  This space
    is never broken.  Yeah, other things are broken but this space is never changing."    Seung
    Sahn


    On ENDING MEDITATION

    Take at least 2 or 3 minutes before opening the eyes.  When our time is more or less finished, we need
    a period of transition before coming out of it.  The nervous system needs a gradual return from the state of
    deep restful-alertness back to the active state.



    On EVERY DAY

    Regularity is critical.  It’s great to meditate a lot from time to time, but it is best to maintain a daily
    practice.  Every day's meditations recreate freshness and clarity, just like our daily shower and night's sleep
    do on their levels.  Furthermore, regular practice creates a powerful rhythm between the state of restful
    alertness and dynamic activity.  This moves our life in a progressive direction.

    Especially, try not to miss during difficult or busy periods of you life.  Don't stop during “dry" periods when
    the experience doesn't seem as profound.  These periods are testings of our resolve!


    "Meditation is not just a practice. Meditation is a natural state. It's an actual
    channel in our consciousness, a bandwidth of tranquility, energy and joy that
    reveals itself when we learn to pay attention. Once you discover how to tune
    yourself to the meditation bandwidth, it will empower your life from within."
    Sally Kempton

    "Meditation is one of the greatest arts in life - perhaps the greatest, and one cannot
    possibly learn it from anybody, that is the beauty of it. It has no technique and
    therefore no authority."   Krishnamurti


    When I say to you that meditation is nothing but thoughtlessness, you can misunderstand me. You
    are not to do anything to become thoughtless, because whatever you will do will be again a
    thought. You have to learn to see the procession of thoughts, standing by the side of the road as
    if it does not matter to you what is passing by. Just the ordinary traffic -- if you can take your
    thoughts in such a manner that they are not of much concern, then easily, slowly, the caravan of
    thoughts which has continued for thousands of years disappears.   Osho





















Meditation is one of the greatest arts in life - perhaps the greatest, and one cannot possibly learn it from anybody, that is the beauty of it. It has no technique and therefore no authority.
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